Are you a Radical Pleasurist? Take a sec to think about it. Let me help. Stick around until the end because I am giving you a potent tool to use right now to frame your 2020 vision. 

My friend came up to me in dance a few days ago, looked me in the eye and said

I love myself today.

I lost my shit. I screamed, jumped up and down, hugged her tight, and said fuck yea!!! I looked her in the eye as she cried and she asked me, Do you love yourself today?

I said, oh yes I do. Of course I do. I meant it. Hearing her say those words brought me to orgasm (by the way, the definition of orgasm is the ability to receive and experience pleasure. All pleasure. I was experiencing extraordinary pleasure in witnessing my dear friend loving herself. More on orgasm and, specifically, sex in 2020). She was a Radical Pleasurist in that moment.

Radical Pleasurist (noun): a human devoted to living their life in every way possible in Radical Pleasure even when life feels shitty, the world is crumbling around you, and you want to run screaming in the other direction. The courageous human who remembers and chooses Radical Pleasure every single time even in the darkest hour. The committed human who bounces back to joy no matter what.

Radical Pleasure (noun): A far-reaching and thorough feeling of happy satisfaction and enjoyment in all areas of life. The choice to live life in a fundamentally different way that espouses love, joy, happiness, and contentment. 

In other words, are you ready to give up living your life in pain? I’m asking seriously. I’ve been asking you for years. Are you ready to give up your addiction to pain? I’m asking you because I know you want to be happy. I’m asking you because I believe in you. I always have and my expectations of you are very high. 

I’m asking you because I know you want to stop giving up on yourself and you need accountability. Well, here I am. 

It’s a process. It’s a commitment. It’s a practice and the most important practice you’ll ever take on in your life because it encompasses everything. 

It’s how you eat your food.
It’s how you talk to your kid.
It’s how you work in a team.
It’s how you make love.
It’s how you get up in the morning and go about your day.
It’s how you see and treat your body.
It’s how you relate to your Inner Critic.
It’s how you relate to God, Source, Universe, Nature, Jesus, Mary, Goddess, Life.
It’s how you love yourself…and others.
It’s how you allow others to love you.

I wrote out my intentions for 2020 and it’s a tall order. I always ask big because I’m in it to win it. Are you?

I don’t make resolutions or vision boards. I write, desire, think, and feel into what I want. That’s my way. Your way could be different. I don’t care how you do it. In order to live as a Radical Pleasurist, you’re going to have to buckle down and make some proclamations. 

Guess what?! I’ve created something for you to use that will organize your thoughts. If you’re brave enough to go for it, of course.

The Pleasure Manifesto
For your 2020 Vision


Here is the Pleasure Manifesto for you to use to frame your 2020 vision and intentions. Make no mistake, it’s powerful. Whatever you proclaim will come to be. That’s a promise. So be careful. Be wise. Take your time. It also contains a secret tool within it that’s equally powerful and for the first TEN brave humans who complete the Manifesto and email the results to the hidden tool inside of it, I will personally make you a video explaining your results. And I will have a personal conversation with you, if you take me up on it. 

The thing is 90% of people never take me up on my offer because 90% of people aren’t ready to be a Radical Pleasurist. They’re not ready to live an amazing life. They’re cool with their mundane, mediocre, and disembodied life. Most people never stop to ask themselves is there a better way? Can life be more enjoyable, free, and fulfilling? Most people don’t ask questions. 

If you’re in the 10% camp, I can’t wait to hear from you because you are someone I want to know. You are someone who is inspiring, wise, intelligent, and curious. You are someone who wants to be energized by life and you want to live life fully no matter what

Today is the day. It’s January 1st. Complete your Pleasure Manifesto with the hidden tool within it. Answer the questions that speak to you and leave the rest. This is for you. Email me at and it’s on. Bring it on!

Also, I’d love for you to share the Pleasure Manifesto by forwarding this email or sending the link. 

Being a Radical Pleasurist, more than anything, is about sharing pleasure and it is always my pleasure to witness you, to share with you, and to love you.

I love you fiercely,







Feel, accept, trust, and love yourself!

You are in!





Feel, accept, trust, and love yourself!

Be in sisterhood now!

You are in!

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